
The Man I Love is directed by Ira Sachs director of The Delta (1996), Little Men (2016), Frankie (2019), Passages (2023), Peter Hujar’s Day (2025) and a few others.
The Man I Love was the last film I watched at the New York Film Festival (there are still 4 films left that I have not reviewed yet) and it was pretty strong one to end on. This is a film that celebrates art and the lives lost during the AIDs crisis in the 80s, what makes the film are its performances and sense of community that are strongly present throughout the film.
As someone who is not typically a fan of Rami Malek, I must say he really surprised me here. Malek plays Jimmy George a man who despite knowing he only has a certain amount of time left due to his AIDS complications, he works on a new project with his theater group. This is quite honestly a career best worthy performance for Malek, there is one scene in which Rami Malek at a family gathering sings a heart-wrenching cover of Melanie’s 1970 song “Look What They’ve Done to My Song, Ma” it’s easily my favorite moment of the film due to how you can just feel the pain and sadness in Malek’s voice. He’s trying incredibly hard to push through everything and wants to bring love and joy to the people around him. It’s a phenomenal performance that will leave you in tears.
Tom Sturridge gets a difficult role here but nails it with balancing this tenderness as well as anger when it’s required. Newcomer Luthor Ford is excellent here and goes on this journey, he plays this selfish character who by the end of the film does realize his mistakes and regrets. A lot of great character moments here that truly add up to a ton of investing scenes.
The sense of community is really what makes this film, the closeness that Jimmy George and his theater group have and the art of theater that they celebrate and make together is truly excellent and beautiful. When the moments of devastation happens with Jimmy, they feel very impactful due to how much we know that Jimmy loves his community, the theme of doing what you love most during your final days of life is established very early on in the film and it’s quite beautifully executed.
The Man I Love is a film full of love and life but the cloud of sadness hangs over it, the film has this love and life vs sadness like element going on here that truly reflects in the atmosphere. There is so much heart poured into the whole experience that it only makes it all the more heartbreaking when arrive to the moments of sadness and struggle.
Overall, The Man I Love is an excellent film that really captures this sense of community, love and sadness. Rami Malek’s performance is top notch and the film itself is an experience that is absolutely looking into.
The Man I Love currently has no distribution or release date.
9/10 A








